The definition of a good mother varies depending on who you ask. The most important thing is to love your children and to make sure they feel loved. In this case, the only opinions that matter are yours and your kids. If you’re trying to be a good mom, start by figuring out what you consider to be most important—is it discipline? Is it quality time? Is it providing your kids with opportunities? Once you’ve figured that out, set ground rules and work to be a positive role model in your kids’ lives. Don’t forget, though, that to invest in your children, you’ll also need to invest in yourself.